Well, the idea solution is that you don't compile things directly on your web server. There's no reason you can't compile it on a workstation and package it for deployment to production. Consider what you would be doing if you had a cluster of web servers. Would you compile manually on each server, or create a package (rpm/deb/tgz/etc) and deploy?
No. But as I pointed out above, Apache comes with 67 modules out-of-the box on Debian, which means you're much less likely to need a custom package, as opposed to the (relative) hassle with nginx. This is why I very much look forward to seeing nginx with reloadable modules.
