I've not used PHP in anger in well over a decade, but if the general environment out there is anything like it was back then there are likely a lot of people, mostly on cheap shared hosting arrangements, running PHP versions older than that and for the most part knowing no better.
That isn't the fault of the language of course, but a valid reason for some of the “ick” reaction some get when it is mentioned.
> languages like nodejs are far worse due to dependency rot
Yep. Node-based projects sometimes get an “ick” reaction from me similar to PHP ones for that reason. In this case it also isn't really the languages fault, but the way people have built the ecosystem around it.
