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Why Talking to Strangers Is the Best Thing You Can Do for Your Mental Health (melmagazine.com)
30 points by makerdiety on Dec 21, 2024 | hide | past | favorite | 5 comments


I find talking to strangers very easy: I just talk to them and usually we end up talking hours, multiple days and even become friends. Have been doing that since I was about 18 (I am in my 50s now); I ended up sleeping at/with people countless times. It seems a lot of people find this very hard to do but it works so far in all countries I have been, although warmer climates make it easier; people seem more open to it.

I must say it that it does make me very happy indeed. Much better than that online nonsense.


Someone talking to strangers to learn a language frequently got variations of the annoyed response: Why are you talking to me? He then explained he was learning the language and everyone seemed oddly cool with that. I don't know if it is the same for doing it to preserve your sanity but seems worth a shot.


Love this. Thanks!


What a way to ruin the day of introverts and autistic people. Please just leave us alone.





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